In our previous blog post, we discussed how taking a glimpse into our past experiences can unlock and uncover the root cause of present-day challenges. The next step is to acknowledge the impact of those past traumas and how it shows up in your work, and family, and acknowledge how we choose to deal with it.
Here are a few questions we encourage you to reflect on today:
What are the things that really bother me or cause me to react in an unpleasant way?
How often are these things happening while working?
Which past experiences are these connected to?
How does this impact my family and those around me?
How am I dealing with it?
Answering these questions puts things in perspective, increasing self-awareness, which improves one's ability to work with others. We are a sum of all that we have experienced but we do not have to be bound by or defined by our experiences.
Acknowledging the past, which we are often told to forget, actually creates a pathway forward and an opportunity to learn. Behavior is not always a reflection of our character; it can also be a result of an experience. Knowing the difference is key to wellness.